David Crawford MD Explains Why You Should Not Give Advice Carelessly
Just because someone is asking for advice does not mean you can tell them exactly what to do. Keep in mind that their problems should be theirs to solve. If you do not have the necessary training, do not attempt to psychoanalyze their situation. Otherwise, you’ll end up doing more harm than good. So how do you help someone who is asking for advice without actually giving any advice? David Crawford MD shares some effective tips: 1. Tell a Story David Crawford MD suggests phrasing your thoughts and opinions in a story-like manner. Rather than giving advice, tell them a story about you or someone you know that would help your friend understand their problems. 2. Use Disclaimers When giving your opinion on the matter, explicitly use disclaimers. Phrases such as “in my opinion,” “I could be wrong,” and “if I were in your position,” will establish that what you are saying does not guarantee positive results. 3. Validate Your Friend’s Emotions If you feel that your friends are r...